Being Selfish

Eleanor Roosevelt said it best:  "Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't." People live for others. Their thoughts influenced by fear, and actions governed by apprehensions. "Would my actions be considered appropriate by my parents, friends, neighbours?"…

Happiness Recipe: Treat others like a Dog

Gucci: My Dog I was against keeping any dog. Why would you want that additional responsibility and a potential health risk, however small? Wife insisted for a couple of years, and I finally relented, and we got this Shih Tzu furball. She named him Gucci. We treat our dogs with love, without expecting almost anything in…

Share the process to build relations

Share the process of what you did with boss/friend/spouse etc to build appreciation as it’s easy to take things for granted. This is not limited to the end result. It doesn’t mean what you did but just what you